There have even been moments where I’ve even suggested something I wasn’t completely sure I’d be into and it turns out, I was.I’m a firm believer that sex SHOULD be an adventure. You’re with someone for so long, you have sex a few times a week, and it simply flows.I can laugh it off but I keep it brief as to not take myself out of the moment.I find acknowledging the incident and then going forward as if it was part of the show keeps my boyfriend and I in the mindset and we don’t have time to focus on any embarrassment, we just want to get to the climax of course. That term “go with your gut” is super important to me when it comes down to the direction the sex is going on a particular night. When it’s not one of those times, the instinct is still an important factor.Something as simple as changing up routine goes a long way.
I wanted to supplement my income and have some fun doing it, so I decided to try finding a sugar daddy.While some people consider sugar relationships a form of sex work, it's a label rejected by sugar dating sites and some members themselves.Regardless, prostitution is a dangerous and illegal activity. I'd grown frustrated with dating men in my city — maybe I'd just had one too many Tinder dates end in mediocre conversation.When I’ve been with someone long enough, most of these gut feelings are accurate and so it doesn’t require much talking about what to do, so I can save the talking for while we’re doing it, and that is a very, very good thing.Jordan Townsend jordan is a writer from salt lake city who enjoys a good steak, her dog, and conversations about how radiohead is awesome.