Teen dating guidelines
Wanting an emotional connection that includes kindness, love, respect, reciprocity and friendship is totally valid. Spending special time with someone you like isn’t tricky. As soon as the fun is hard to come by or the relationship feels imbalanced, reevaluate what’s going on. If someone asks you out, you don’t have to say yes but do try to say “no” kindly.You have your whole life to get tangled up in complicated relationships. It’s not easy putting yourself out there, taking a risk, and letting another person know how you feel about them.While it might mean a person is trying to tell you they’re interested, it shouldn’t be the only connection that defines your relationship.Besides, hook-ups and sexting, while thrilling, have the potential to be anywhere from demeaning to abusive.From the outside looking in, it’s hard to tell if anyone is actually interacting meaningfully with anyone else.
It may seem awkward at first, but not being honest becomes even more awkward and potentially dangerous later on. If the person you’re with doesn’t respect your wishes, get out of there or get help (including calling or texting me).If you can’t be yourself in a relationship, then it’s not the relationship for you. If your partner isn’t reciprocating and you want them to, say so. You never have to agree to any activity, intimate or otherwise, you don’t want to do or are unsure about.Forget about waiting around for your love object to ask you to hang out. As your grandmother says, “If you’re ever in doubt, don’t.” Physical and/or digital interaction alone does not a relationship make.Your heart will soar when your crush crushes back, and will plummet when they don’t or a relationship ends.Learning how to handle both the highs and lows is part of growing up.