No interest in dating after break up
No wonder it’s been said that love is sweet misery.We want something so bad even though we know all it’ll do is hurt us more.As long as you stay around your ex, you’ll constantly remember how much you miss your relationship.Only when you take an emotional step away will you be able to look around and find new things to fill that emptiness you feel in your heart. If you’ve been dumped by someone you still love or even if you’ve parted ways mutually, the relationship status changes overnight, but your feelings for your ex won’t be able to keep pace with it.It sounds harsh, but well, that’s what the no contact rule is all about. There are two kinds of endings to every relationship, a happy ending and a sad one.If both of you decide to part ways because there’s no real love in the romance anymore, it’s a happy ending *wow, the irony of it all! If you’re still in love with your lover, and yet, your lover arm twists you into a breakup because they don’t care about you anymore or are dating someone else, then that’s a sad ending for you and probably a happy ending for your soon-to-be-ex.
Even if you don’t want to date your ex again, the fact that you’re hurting means you feel empty in your heart and want more love in your life.[Read: Things to know before you google your ex’s name] If you’re hurting inside after the break up, you really need to follow the no contact rule and avoid your current ex completely.It’s the only way you can ever bring that natural smile back on your face again.It’s understandable that you want to stay in touch with your ex.But sometimes, avoiding all contact with an ex is possibly the best thing to do, even if staying in touch feels like a wonderful consolation prize to win after a breakup.