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He is still using manhunt and also had a grindr account. All the excuses in the world will not change what is going on, accept it & move on. Move on, it was the hardest thing I've ever done but I don't regret it. he used to constantly leave me pack bags an go and there has been so many things I question along the way. i'm starting to think that this man has been a really really bad bad horrible person and turn a lot of things behind my back.
I tried to talk about it but he was so mad that I hadnt dropped this by now, that it was old and we already fought about it than he said it was over between us because I cant let things go. for 2 1/2 years he has emotionally wrecked me with lies, making me feel I was crazy because of the things I questioned. I gave him everything and done everything I could . he says he's never cheated but we have had conversations about being bi curious.
Since we broke up my life has gone from strength to strength and it's only been a couple of weeks since I last saw him.
I can understand people struggling with sexuality but lying and betraying is unforgivable. Been with the same guy for almost 3 years and it started out with him cheating/flirting with girls behind my back (sex, hanging out, messaging), then being emotionally/physically abusive, to most recently having mutilple subscriptions to straight & gay hookups sites, he even made a Grindr. I would always find out way later on and be crushed, then he would try to apologize and be emotional then expect me to move on from it quickly.
I felt like I was the one being more sexual and he was just responding. I even told him I'd be his friend and not from a ex girlfriend prospective.
When I confronted him he denied it was him and deleted it within minutes, got really angry and accused me of putting spyware on his computer or I wouldn't have found it.
He broke some of my stuff and then put a brick through my window when I got him to leave and shut him out.
A month ago I found out he was on dating sites including craigslist and manhunt. We fought for 2 days, bags were packed, I was broken.
He said over and over again that he never acted on it because he was atleast man enough not to do that, that I was always on his mind and it kept him away from it.