Men confused dating
I'm confused as to is this typical bevaviour of a Pisces man? I can't tell if he likes me or not, he has only had one other girlfriend before, so I am not sure wether he just seriously has no idea at all or if he doesn't really like me or if that's just the way he is. I really like him and we get along sooooo well on the phone but when we meet up he is really quiet. If he does,nt spend at least 50% of the effort u give him hes not interested. but your experiences with pisces men shows a character trait, it's hysterical. We never chat online, call each other or send messages except he calls me 2-3 days prior to meeting.
My pisces man chased me for months, calling constantly etc etc. He says he is going to call at certain times and always calls an hour or 2 later than he says.
Not so that you will lose all hope and fall into despair…I tell you this because when you try to get him back out based on the wrong understanding, you’ll probably fail and lose him. If you want to know more about men and how they REALLY deal with the idea of commitment, check out this video I made.
Men can AND will commit – it’s just a matter of understanding how he arrives at that decision.
Vulnerability can be scary, and he needs to take it at his own pace. And most people say these things because they’re afraid of the awkwardness of sitting there with someone who’s about to freak out.
Yes, it can mean that he’s trying to gently ease his way out of the relationship. Sure, they’re rooting for you, but it’s uncomfortable as heck. Usually it’s the women that don’t get men and fail – blaming their situation on him or others – that say men won’t commit.
And he will come back even more committed than ever when he’s allowed to do this.
It can also mean that he’s got a crush outside your relationship. Look – I do what none of the other “dating gurus” out there will do. The reality is that divorces are initiated 80% of the time by the WOMAN. Men will stay with the relationship and keep working at it much further than you realize.
I tell you the cold stark TRUTH about what men think and feel. In fact, in study after study, the evidence piles up that men are actually MORE committed to the relationship want to make a mistake with his heart.
I asked my aries once about him going quiet or shutting down & he said "this is how i am when I'm tired (he works 90hrs a week) just ask my family." I've never asked him again & i have full trust.
He's 25 & i'm 38 & I just feel if our relationship is meant to develop into anything more, it will.