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After connecting with a guy in New York, we started chatting daily. I was so nervous and insecure about what he’d think of my postpartum body that I bought multiple outfits, three pairs of shoes, and brought them all for a four-day weekend.

I waited to start dating again until my divorce was final, but I put up a dating profile a few months before signing the papers.

Over 64% of the respondents said that they felt insecure about dating after divorce. It’s really not easy for us to put ourselves back on the “market.”The dating world likely has changed since the last time we dated.

I am curious to know how others have struggled with the prospect of dating again after leaving the abuser. I am nearly two years' out of my 10-yr marriage, 4 yrs of living together prior to marriage. Stuckette, I can’t say at first that I was “scared” to date. I was pretty sure most men weren’t the creeps my ex was and if I remember you and I had one from a similar mold.

Were you ever attracted to someone yet scared of them at the same time, even though they were not scarey? My son became a senior in high school and I started to become open to the idea of a “friend/date”.

Dating apps were new to me, and I soon realized the hell of online dating. No, really, if dating after divorce is scary than it’s easy to stay in the fear rather than take a step into the unknown.

Hook-up culture can be utterly terrifying if you’ve only had one or a few partners before getting divorced. It’s okay if those emotions are stronger than any excitement you may feel. You might have to force yourself to go on a few dates because it’s good for you. Fear tells us lies, and it often springs from our insecurities.

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