Girl dating older guy
Clearly, you haven’t found what you’re looking for yet, so why not go with someone older and more wiser?
While all of these won’t be true of every older man (after all, many suffer from Peter Pan syndrome), as a whole, you’re going to realize more of these benefits with an older man. There’s a good chance he’s midway in his career, and therefore at least somewhat financially stable. It basically is the opposite of being broke, which is a libido-killer for most women.
A mature man isn’t in the middle of an identity crisis.
He may even have grown children, which may be easier to deal with if you get serious and end up living together or married (you’re not the wicked stepmother to small children). But these are a few things to be aware of if you consider dating an older man. But you’ve both got to be able to compromise in order to make a relationship work. If it’s important to you to have an active social life, dating an older man may not be for you. You likely want a serious relationship too, but you know you can’t rush it. Speeding into becoming an established couple never works.
Whether you believed it then or not, dating in your 40s or older reveals that dating an older man can have perks over dating a younger man.
The good news is: 60% of men are attracted to younger women, so you’re a hot commodity for anyone older, whether that’s two years older or, if you’re into it, 20.
Some critics of women dating older men say they do so because they have “daddy issues,” but a recent study proved otherwise.
Here’s what it said: “…it is evolutionarily beneficial for women to seek older mates, and that there will be no significant difference in attachment styles between women in age-gap versus similar-age relationships.” What this means is that it’s an evolutionary pattern that women are drawn to older men, in part because of their status and resources. If you were pumping gas and a gorgeous Lamborghini/Tesla/Porsche pulled up next to you with a good-looking older man in it, wouldn’t you do a double-take?