Dating tips for women uk
So instead, say you were thinking of going to X (a convenient good venue) for drinks/lunch/dinner if she would like that?
(Did her profile suggest where she likes to go/what she likes to do?
Don't just put it on silent or vibrate as you can still be distracted.
Turn it off completely as she will appreciate you taking the time to engage fully with her.
Something which can work really well is to tell her what impressed you with her profile – perhaps her interests and hobbies and ask her to tell you more about them and her lifestyle.
This is a great way to impress someone and increase your chances of having more follow-up dates.
One of the things which helps confidence and can keep conversations positive and upbeat is to remember that to be interesting you have to be interested in the other person.
Put mobile phones away to give each other full attention.
Even if you don't feel there is any connection when you meet, at this stage you are on the date so you might as well make your mind up to enjoy the experience no matter the outcome.
– if so suggest that and you are likely to be off to a good start).
Choose a venue where you both will feel comfortable and one which is busy enough to have a good atmosphere but still allow you to hear each other without shouting. Many restaurants offer good value lunch and early bird menus which are very suitable for first dates.
If you are open to meeting again, make sure the person knows and try not to give confusing signals.
The sooner you tell her you had a great time and ask her out again the better.