Dating relationship building questions new to the dating scene again
Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
Share a personal problem and ask your partner's advice on how he or she might handle it.
I went into it with faith that it'd be a good thing and my spouse started scrolling on one question while I was talking (to see the next question).
If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be? If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know? Is there something that you've dreamt of doing for a long time? At long last the secret of ratcheting up intimacy is revealed! Perhaps my brain is starved of oxygen or else the feeling of hypoxia is a testament to the efficiency of this method. You don't really believe your interlocutor is going to stop after 36, do you? I really don't feel that this list of questions would necessarily make me feel good about the other person or feel closer to them.
Or, try the sincere approach..."this is something that is important to me, can we spend a few minutes each night/week/month sharing our answers" Give him the opportunity to "pass" on questions that make him to uncomfortable.
I don't know you or your husband, but I do know that there are NO men that have "no emotions", just many that that lack practice expressing them, for many societal and cultural reasons and both men and women tend to follow an unwritten, gender script, in their conversations that keep these patterns reoccurring.
But sometimes in real life we want to slow the process down.
What roles do love and affection play in your life? Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. The questions were developed as part of a scientific study intended to establish that intimacy can be developed quickly.