Have you ever wondered what will drive a woman to choose you over her other options?If you’re direct and confident while others remain passive, there will be no contest – you’ll already be the clear winner in her eyes.The sexiest men are the ones who make their intentions David Klow, a Chicago based Psychotherapist and owner of Skylight Counseling Center explained this concept to me in a way that made me smile and nod my head in agreement: “Women like direct men the same way a salsa dancer likes a good lead.
They love it when a man makes plans with them in advance, plans out an entire evening and even follows up with her the next day.When a woman is salsa dancing, if her man is unsure and waivers she is then forced to step into a masculine, leading role even though she would prefer him to lead. If she can’t trust his movements, they step on one another’s toes.If he is direct and clear in his leadership, however, everyone wins.” The ambiguous type will always be indirect and will never be transparent.There are many reasons why women are attracted to direct men. Women aren’t interested in putting up with the guessing games that ambiguous and passive types often subject them to.If she’s dating someone who makes her feel unsure of where she stands, she’ll feel compelled to look for someone else. Because women don’t want to date anyone who makes them feel uncertain, and a real man is direct.