Dating a skinny man
You signed up to Attractive Partner’s “Elite” package, which promised bespoke headhunting, but to date you have only been offered three men, none of which met your paticular criteria (your no-nos include skinny men, beards, and anyone living more than 100 miles away).
This apparent lack of suitable men came as a huge disappointment to you.
Skinny guys are kings in that particular subculture.
People generally find ideal to be something in between.
Then he said if I bulk up I'll notice the same thing because being stocky is more masculine and dominaant..
and that being lean/skinny for a man is a bad thing because only women are supposed to be slim.
If it's in your family jeans, maybe try getting a new pair?
Also, whether or not it's in your genes doesn't matter. Lift hard, eat tons of calories and you'll get bigger and gain muscle.